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If you date an overthinker...


If you want to date an overthinker you need to understand that they can't control their thoughts and that it's not their fault.

Try to be compassionate when you receive bouts of insecurities.

They will question everything until they understand.

You need to be very clear about what you intend to say to avoid confusion.

They will dissect each word repeatedly.

Be okay with making a lot of decisions.

Overthinkers are plagued by indecisiveness.

But once they decided you can't change their mind.

You will also need to constantly reassure them that you're not going anywhere.

Never lie to an overthinker, It will not end well.

They will think about it over and over until it makes sense to them.

And finally, Trust an overthinker when they tell you they love you because they have already thought of every reason not to.

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